They Are Giving You Just Enough Payout to Make You Keep Pulling the Slot

A friend and I were corresponding about her church's response to her as she seeks help to deal with her abuser until she can safely escape him. This church has strung her along for years, asking how she's doing, promising interventions, having long conversations that leave her thinking, "At last! Someone gets it! They will… Continue reading They Are Giving You Just Enough Payout to Make You Keep Pulling the Slot

Let’s Put This “But he hasn’t physically abused you” Nonsense to Rest Once and For All

Listen to these far too common words from a pastor to an abused wife who has gone to him for help. The abuse has occurred for decades, habitually, without repentance: From what I have been told, you have suggested that your husband's looking at inappropriate images on the internet is adultery, but he has not… Continue reading Let’s Put This “But he hasn’t physically abused you” Nonsense to Rest Once and For All