A Typical Line by an Abuser — “I Just Don’t Know Why She Left Me”

Recently we have been watching the reality series "Life Below Zero." One of the couples featured in the episodes is a clear example of an abuser and victim — Andy (abuser) and Kate (victim). If you want to see an abuser in action, just tune in and watch. Kate was in denial in earlier episodes… Continue reading A Typical Line by an Abuser — “I Just Don’t Know Why She Left Me”

The abuser’s word salad & weird language when he’s working hard at resisting taking responsibility

When the abuser is pulling out all stops to show that he is right and you / others are wrong, his language sometimes becomes a little weird. I have observed this kind of poor English in the language of many men who abuse their wives. (However, some abusive men are so well educated and verbally… Continue reading The abuser’s word salad & weird language when he’s working hard at resisting taking responsibility