Victim blaming — what should we do about it?

I've been considering why people are hesitant to believe reports of abuse. Not just that. I'm considering the responses even when they DO believe it. There is a tendency to blame the targets / victims and I have wondered why that is. And here's something that's been a slight comfort to me. It's not just… Continue reading Victim blaming — what should we do about it?

Stop saying “Divorce causes broken homes.” Just stop it.

This was a comment posted on our Facebook page by our friend Juliette. Divorce often occurs when targets of abuse (with their children) LEAVE the "broken home." A "broken home" in which they have bravely STAYED, with passionate hope for healing - for way too long!! A "broken home" which is making the targets ill, mentally fragmented… Continue reading Stop saying “Divorce causes broken homes.” Just stop it.