Victims sometimes choose to stay in abusive relationships because they think it's best for the kids to have a dud father rather than no father. Someone made this comment on my own [old Not Under Bondage] blog and it's so wonderful that I'm reposting it here. [Click here for the Internet Archive link. Editors.] Thank… Continue reading Staying for the kids?
Tag: dangerous views on abuse
Anger Management is Not the Answer
A reader recently wrote and said that her ex, and abusive man for over two decades, insists that his only problem is anger. He claims to be a Christian and is verbally repentant about his anger. The only problem is that in the same breath that he "confesses" his anger, he lays blame upon her… Continue reading Anger Management is Not the Answer