Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Abuse
Many people are offering help to the abused. In making sense of the things we have suffered, we don't want to waste our energy following people-helpers who may lead us astray. In trying to find safety, vindication, healing and justice, we don't want to waste our time and energy following people-helpers who are actually harming… Continue reading Non-Negotiables for Effective and Biblical Abuse Ministry
The person who operates from The Colonial Code of Relationship1 is carrying out a mild, moderate or severe version of coercive control. I therefore urge all would-be-helpers to understand the Colonial Code of Relationship, in order to avoid doing it to victims. Here is my adapted version of the Colonial Code of Relationship. I've expanded… Continue reading The Colonial Code of Relationship
