There have been at least two times in my own experience when I have told someone who was abusive that they were not to contact me again. Each time they would send birthday presents or some other things to my house in my mail. I never replied to the gift in any way and in… Continue reading Gifts from pursuing abusers
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Is it a sin to feel afraid?
One of our readers, No Name Please, wrote the following comment in a recent post (link) [emphasis added by Barb]: ....my pastor, who is a great guy and supportive, and the other two people involved in the counseling, even my lawyer don't get my fear. My ex's pastor and my friend actually did call it… Continue reading Is it a sin to feel afraid?
