When I'm listening to a person who is complaining about their spouse or their marriage, I want to discern whether they are a victim or a perpetrator. Does this mean I am suspicious of all disclosures of abuse? Yes; and no. In most cases, the person's words (and body language, if I'm able to see… Continue reading The language of abusers who portray themselves as victims — Vagueness & Contradictions
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Trying to Escape When You Can’t Explain – by Katy
One of our readers, Katy, has very kindly sent us this story. In the beginning of my marriage I had no clue what abuse was, nor that I was being abused. I did not have the vocabulary for what was happening to me. I am also a very introverted person so I think this added… Continue reading Trying to Escape When You Can’t Explain – by Katy
