How many times have you tried to explain things to your abusive spouse with the hope that maybe this time he will "get it"? Dr. George Simon explains [Internet Archive link]1 why most of the time this effort produces no change in the abuser, only frustration for the victim: You have to understand that CDs… Continue reading Thursday Thought — The Frustration of Explaining things to an Abuser
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The Incredible Truth About The Drama Triangle
How many times would I end up walking out of that room, dizzy with confusion at what just happened, or didn’t happen, feeling like I am always the problem, always the one who needs to work harder and do better? I had gone in, like so many other times, wanting to address a small issue… Continue reading The Incredible Truth About The Drama Triangle
