Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] "She nags me" means she presses me to accept my responsibilities. If you ask an abuser to fulfil his responsibilities, you are not being controlling.… Continue reading She nags me! – what the abuser means when he says that
Tag: abuser’s mentality
8. Should biblical counselors put lots of energy into helping abusive men see their sins?
It is wise to work on the assumption that the abuser knows what he did, knows it was wrong, knows he's making false accusations about his target. How do we know that abusers know they are doing wrong? Abusers know they are doing wrong because they hide from the public the wrong things they do.… Continue reading 8. Should biblical counselors put lots of energy into helping abusive men see their sins?
