How can I know if my abuser is changing?

Do you think that your abuser might be changed or changing? Is he love bombing you? Is he making you wonder whether he finally really sees that you love him, that you have value, and should be treated with respect? Do you keep the phone with you hoping for the repentant email or text that will show… Continue reading How can I know if my abuser is changing?

Thursday Thought — Entitlement

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Does your partner expect you to live up to a high and unreasonable set of demands and expectations? Yet at the same time does he act… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Entitlement