Some people think there is something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to, otherwise he wouldn't have someone to abuse. Is this true? Another, perhaps more hurtful way of putting this idea is that victims need to work on why they attract that sort of dynamic. Women often feel great shame because they believe… Continue reading Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?
Category: Victims
how victims are affected by and respond to abuse, awakening from the fog, getting free, healing & recovery, hope
One Day At A Time – poem by a survivor
This poem was sent to us by "Emma" One Day At A Time: This too shall pass, I always say. I've said it now for years. When I was too 'weak' to carry on, I'd pray this through my tears. Sweet Jesus, help me carry on! How long? I'd ask... how long? And Jesus whispered… Continue reading One Day At A Time – poem by a survivor
