We've heard about red flags that someone is an abuser. But there are also red flags in victims – ways they think and feel and rationalize during the courtship – which in retrospect they realize were signs of danger. A survivor Kara discusses this topic on Moved By Faith where she blogs with her friend… Continue reading Red Flags – Warning signs in me – a repost from MovedByFaith
Category: Victims
how victims are affected by and respond to abuse, awakening from the fog, getting free, healing & recovery, hope
Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?
Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries? This is a close cousin to the question "Do victims attract abusers?" which I looked at recently in my post Is there something in a victim that an abuser latches on to? One of our readers, Pamplamoussejuice, made a comment to which I wrote a couple of… Continue reading Do victims have a problem with setting boundaries?