For this is the message that you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. We should not be like Cain, who was of the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own deeds were evil and his brother's righteous. Do not be surprised, brothers,… Continue reading Why Does He do That? – The Fundamental Motivation of the Abuser
Author: Jeff Crippen
I am the pastor of Christ Reformation Church in Tillamook, Oregon, arriving here in 1993. I have been a pastor since 1983 and was a police officer for 12 years before that. My wife and I have been married since 1971. Verla is a medical assistant at a local clinic and in our spare time we like to hunt, fish, and ride our motorcycle.
A Common Tactic of Abusers is to Try to Alienate the Victim’s Allies
I understand that you are giving _______ counsel and I want to talk to you. I have received that kind of message many times over the past few years. A message on our church answering machine. An email. A note. I never answer these messages because I know what they are about. They are attempts… Continue reading A Common Tactic of Abusers is to Try to Alienate the Victim’s Allies
