George Simon — workshops on manipulators and character disorders
Dr George Simon Jr is planning a series of workshops on manipulators and character disorders around the USA and in other countries as well. Click on the link for more information.
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What kind of therapy will help treat these disorders? My husband has these and we cannot find a psychologist that has been able to help him. What sort of approach/theory does a psychologist need to use? Please help me find someone for him.
Hi, and welcome to the blog. 🙂
So far as I know, and I learned this from Dr George Simon and other reading I have done as an interested lay-person, there is no specific therapy that treats the manipulative/malignant types of character disorders.
You will find it helpful to read more of our articles about George Simon. Here is our George Simon tag.
But I don’t suggest you get your husband to read any of our stuff. He is only likely to twist what he reads and use it against you.
I also suggest you read our New Users’ Info page as it gives tips for how to guard your safety while commenting on the blog.
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Hi Anonymous, thank you for commenting here, and may I extend you a warm welcome. 🙂
If your husband was REALLY serious about wanting to change, he would not be expecting you to do the work of finding a treatment program or therapist that would help him. I encourage you to turn your focus away from trying to find help for your husband, and instead look at our Frequently Asked Questions to see what interests you there.
Don Hennessy ran groups for groups for male intimate abusers, but stopped when he realised they were not doing much good and were dangerous in some cases.
Dr George Simon Jr says that there is no ‘silver bullet’ treatment for character disorders. He says that character disordered people who manipulate others and use covert or overt aggression are extremely resistant to change.
In his article Contrition Revisited, Dr Simon says: —
Here is a quote from Dr Simon’s article How to Recognize True (and false) Contrition —
Here are some more links you want to further explore Dr George Simon’s material.
Dr George Simon Jr — his internet writings and his books.
Psychopath, Sociopath — is there a difference?
Contrition, Repentance and Forgiveness
Denial versus Lying