As we know, abuse victims are regularly and roundly criticized (that's putting it mildly) for leaving and / or filing for divorce from their abuser. One of the charges made against them is that "she just wants to take him for all she can in divorce court." And, of course, abusers love to repeat this… Continue reading “She Just Wants to Take Him for all She Can” — Really?
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“Christian” Enabling of the Abuser Increases His Attacks on the Victim
Recently an abuse survivor made a very insightful comment. She said that she could always tell when her abuser (a professing Christian) was receiving support from a Christian. How? He stepped up the intensity of his abuse. She said that while non-Christian support for him would certainly encourage him in his wickedness, her suffering at… Continue reading “Christian” Enabling of the Abuser Increases His Attacks on the Victim