I understand that you are giving _______ counsel and I want to talk to you. I have received that kind of message many times over the past few years. A message on our church answering machine. An email. A note. I never answer these messages because I know what they are about. They are attempts… Continue reading A Common Tactic of Abusers is to Try to Alienate the Victim’s Allies
Tag: identifying abusers
broad term that relates to identifying an abuser once in a long term relationship
Thursday Thought — How can I tell Whom to Trust?
When deciding whom to trust, bear in mind that the combination of consistently bad or egregiously inadequate behavior with frequent plays for your pity is as close to a warning mark on a conscienceless person's forehead as you will ever be given. A person whose behavior includes both of these features is not necessarily a… Continue reading Thursday Thought — How can I tell Whom to Trust?
