How the abuser behaves when the victim is on the cusp of leaving Let’s consider the abuser’s sudden nice behavior when he has either been told by the victim that she is leaving, or he suspects that she may leave. I would like to suggest that the abuser's new acts of kindness have nothing to do… Continue reading Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (Part 2) — Stalking behavior by the abuser
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Right Back At Ya! The Abuser’s Tactic of Reflective Blaming
Recently I had a refresher course in abuser tactics. Not in a classroom, but in real life. I need these reminders to help me continue to learn how to put into practice what I have learned about abuse. Necessary, because we all so easily revert to our old errors we used to be bound by… Continue reading Right Back At Ya! The Abuser’s Tactic of Reflective Blaming
