Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?

Some people think there is something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to, otherwise he wouldn't have someone to abuse. Is this true? Another, perhaps more hurtful way of putting this idea is that victims need to work on why they attract that sort of dynamic. Women often feel great shame because they believe… Continue reading Is there something in the victim that the perpetrator latches on to? And do women ‘attract’ abusers?

Is emotional abuse classed as “Domestic Violence”?

"I've only been emotionally abused, would my local Domestic Violence Service help me? All their literature talks about violence, and I've never suffered violence! I'm not sure they would be interested in helping people like me." This is an extremely common thought in victims' minds, and it prevents victims from seeking help from the services… Continue reading Is emotional abuse classed as “Domestic Violence”?