Gains & losses; submission & self-sacrifice

For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul? (Matt. 16:26) What does it mean to lose or forfeit oneself – one's very soul? Obviously in the eternal sense, the destination would be hell. But there… Continue reading Gains & losses; submission & self-sacrifice

The language of abusers who portray themselves as victims — Vagueness & Contradictions

When I'm listening to a person who is complaining about their spouse or their marriage, I want to discern whether they are a victim or a perpetrator. Does this mean I am suspicious of all disclosures of abuse? Yes; and no. In most cases, the person's words (and body language, if I'm able to see… Continue reading The language of abusers who portray themselves as victims — Vagueness & Contradictions