If I call out the abuser for his abusive accusations, am I not also an accuser? Yes; but there is a difference between an unjust accusation and a justified accusation. An accusation is justified when the person being accused has merited that accusation by his or her behavior. Here are some examples: police prosecutors justly accuse someone of crime when they are confident that… Continue reading My abuser says I am the abuser!
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Contriving a test to probe whether a hardened heart has repented (Is it always sinful to tell an untruth? — Part 3)
If a person has demonstrated a pattern of maliciously endangering others — and perhaps time has now passed and the wicked person may have reformed — it is wise to probe and test that person's heart before making oneself vulnerable to them. Is there any softening? Are there indications of genuine repentance? Can this person now be trusted? Have they somehow lost their… Continue reading Contriving a test to probe whether a hardened heart has repented (Is it always sinful to tell an untruth? — Part 3)