Abusers and Their Trophies

3 John 1:9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority.  You have heard me quote this verse before.  It is a statement about one of the best examples of an abuser parading as a Christian to be found in the Bible.  Diotrephes… Continue reading Abusers and Their Trophies

The Error of Seeing the Abuser as Victim

(Proverbs 30:20  ESV)  This is the way of an adulteress: she eats and wipes her mouth and says, "I have done no wrong." When there is a crime, there is a victim and a criminal. It is just that simple. If your house was burglarized, would you believe for a second that the burglar is… Continue reading The Error of Seeing the Abuser as Victim