“We were a Christian couple in ministry…”

We were a Christian couple in ministry, teaching others about purity and integrity, and and I didn't feel that we were living what we were teaching. When I finally put my foot down and said that I would not watch pornography for moral reasons and because it took the focus off us and our togetherness… Continue reading “We were a Christian couple in ministry…”

The F Word (forgiveness)

Forgiveness — the F word! Muddled concepts of forgiveness cause immense problems for victims of abuse. One of our Anonymous readers has pointed us to this immensely helpful interview with David Augsburger (author of Caring Enough to Confront and Freedom of Forgiveness), entitled The F Word: Forgiveness and Its Limitations. She says "It’s a very… Continue reading The F Word (forgiveness)