Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Abuse
Those who want to help victims of abuse can use the Transtheoretical Model For Change to avoid lording it over victims whom they are trying to help. If more pastors, biblical counselors and advocates become aware of the stages of change, fewer victims will be criticised for not changing at the pace that the 'helper-person'… Continue reading The Transtheoretical Model For Change — a tool that can support victims of abuse
The person who operates from The Colonial Code of Relationship1 is carrying out a mild, moderate or severe version of coercive control. I therefore urge all would-be-helpers to understand the Colonial Code of Relationship, in order to avoid doing it to victims. Here is my adapted version of the Colonial Code of Relationship. I've expanded… Continue reading The Colonial Code of Relationship
