The Evil, the Foolish, the Wise – some helpful teaching by Henry Cloud

The book of Proverbs – God's book of psychology – abounds with references to three kinds of people: the evil, the foolish and the wise. Henry Cloud has some good teaching on this topic which he presented to organizational managers. I've slightly edited his material in the version below, to make it more applicable to… Continue reading The Evil, the Foolish, the Wise – some helpful teaching by Henry Cloud

Converting statements into questions – a skill for bystanders who want to help victims of abuse

Those who seek to help survivors of abuse often find their well-intentioned remarks fall like lead balloons. The survivors don't respond with alacrity, gratitude or even (sometimes) civility. What causes this mismatch? Why are so many well-intentioned comments received so poorly? What's the static on the line causing this interference? Being a survivor myself and… Continue reading Converting statements into questions – a skill for bystanders who want to help victims of abuse