Prejudice is a scourge. My first husband had prejudices. He was white, slim and fit, and he despised anyone who was fat or unfit. He also despised Asian people and used scurrilous names for them as a group, but at the same time he virtually idolised Asian women for their demure and submissive femininity. My… Continue reading Prejudice
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Abuse and Pre-Marriage Counseling: We Must Change Our Approach
There are scores of books written and designed to be used to counsel engaged couples, purporting to make them better prepared for marriage. Many pastors insist on pre-marriage counseling before they will agree to perform a wedding. I am sure that their intent is good, but frankly, I have never enjoyed nor felt any degree… Continue reading Abuse and Pre-Marriage Counseling: We Must Change Our Approach
