Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Abuse
Victim safety and wellbeing must be the fundamental guiding principle if you are counseling abusive men or doing anything to hold them accountable and call them to reform. It's vital to put victim safety and wellbeing first. Any person or agency that works with abusive men must see the victim (not the abuser) as their real… Continue reading 10. Victim care is vital – Chris Moles & other biblical counselors are falling short in this
Chris Moles uses some wording that can endorse the abuser's narrative. I will give three examples of this. Chris's language permits the abuser to evade responsibility for his wrong choices. Chris wrote a blog post aimed at abusive men – 'Telling The Truth To Yourself' (T*). In that post he used some language that in my view… Continue reading 5. Chris Moles sometimes endorses the abuser’s narrative
