Bill Eddy (a certified Family Law Specialist in California) has written a marvelous and succinct book on how to deal with (what he calls), High Conflict Personalities. He defines a high conflict personality as one who lacks the skills for being able to deal with conflict. HCP's are people who do not understand (nor deal with)… Continue reading A Review of “BIFF: Quick Responses to High Conflict People” by Bill Eddy
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Triangulation: A Method Used by Abusers
This is Wikipedia's definition of Triangulation [Internet Archive link]1: The term triangulation is most commonly used to express a situation in which one family member will not communicate directly with another family member, but will communicate with a third family member, which can lead to the third family member becoming part of the triangle. The concept… Continue reading Triangulation: A Method Used by Abusers
