You Must Listen to Me! (says the abuser)

I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. (3 John 1:9) Abusers, as most all of you know through years of grievous experience, possess a mentality of incredible entitlement. One of the typical displays of this is their insistence that everyone listen to them.… Continue reading You Must Listen to Me! (says the abuser)

Thursday Thought — When His Put-Downs Sound True

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Some of the hardest put-downs to deal with are the ones that seem to have aspects of truth to them. Maybe he's snarling at you that… Continue reading Thursday Thought — When His Put-Downs Sound True