Thursday Thought — Where to Get Help When Everyone Sides with Him

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Sometimes it just becomes too painful to keep trying to get the people around you to see the truth. When people are impressed with your partner… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Where to Get Help When Everyone Sides with Him

What Does it Feel Like to Not be Believed?

One of the most important things we can do to help victims of abuse is believe them when they tell us what is going on behind the scenes. If you have been following this blog for a while, you have probably seen that we have been attacked by some pretty nasty types who accuse us of believing… Continue reading What Does it Feel Like to Not be Believed?