Checklist for Repentance

If they are genuinely repentant, abusers will: Stop all blame-shifting. Stop blaming their spouse. Stop making excuses. Commit to going to a professionally run Behaviour Change Group for spouse-abusers. Admit, confess and accept responsibility for all their abuse, in full detail. Identify the attitudes that drive their abusiveness. Relinquish their attitudes of entitlement and superiority… Continue reading Checklist for Repentance

We Need to Stop Telling Abuse Victims What To Do

(Romans 14:4-5  ESV)  (4) Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.  (5) One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days… Continue reading We Need to Stop Telling Abuse Victims What To Do