Keep Your Accusation Radar Up — It Detects Abusers

I have written on this subject before, just last September — but it comes around in my mind once more as 2015 begins. Here is a fact that will serve you well in helping identify and defend against an abuser: Abusers are accusers. A normal, healthy, safe relationship is not characterized by accusations. If someone is… Continue reading Keep Your Accusation Radar Up — It Detects Abusers

Thursday Thought — Entitlement

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Does your partner expect you to live up to a high and unreasonable set of demands and expectations? Yet at the same time does he act… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Entitlement