Update added 12 March 2019. These guidelines for spotting a pseudo-victim, while valid, are not universal. Read this comment for an example of how they don't fit every situation. (My thanks to Barbara Roberts for her help with this post.) I am sure that you have watched police SWAT teams in action at a hostage… Continue reading How to Spot an Abuser Who Claims to be the Victim
Tag: identifying abusers
broad term that relates to identifying an abuser once in a long term relationship
The Root of Abuse
One of the most common ways that a Christian is persecuted today is in the scenario of a Christian who is married to a non-Christian. Very often the unsaved spouse, the abuser, parades himself or herself as an eminent Christian, but is really only a Saul. And at the root of the abuse is a… Continue reading The Root of Abuse