Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (part 1) — Will he hear my “no”? Should I let him down easy?

A member of my ex's family complained when I divorced. She didn't side with my ex saying he hadn't done anything wrong — she admitted that ex had done wrong. Instead, she complained about my behavior. She claimed I wasn’t being nice in how I handled the separation and divorce. According to her, I wasn’t… Continue reading Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (part 1) — Will he hear my “no”? Should I let him down easy?

Anger is Not the Abuser’s Issue – He Didn’t “Just Snap”

The New York Daily News [Internet Archive link] reported this story yesterday, June 17, 2015: A New Jersey cop furious over child custody issues ran his ex-wife off the road, then gunned her down in front his young daughter and fellow officers Tuesday morning, authorities said. . . "It looks like he just snapped," witness Linda… Continue reading Anger is Not the Abuser’s Issue – He Didn’t “Just Snap”