How the abuser behaves when the victim is on the cusp of leaving Let’s consider the abuser’s sudden nice behavior when he has either been told by the victim that she is leaving, or he suspects that she may leave. I would like to suggest that the abuser's new acts of kindness have nothing to do… Continue reading Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (Part 2) — Stalking behavior by the abuser
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Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (part 1) — Will he hear my “no”? Should I let him down easy?
A member of my ex's family complained when I divorced. She didn't side with my ex saying he hadn't done anything wrong — she admitted that ex had done wrong. Instead, she complained about my behavior. She claimed I wasn’t being nice in how I handled the separation and divorce. According to her, I wasn’t… Continue reading Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (part 1) — Will he hear my “no”? Should I let him down easy?

