Thursday Thought — The Slow Build of Harm

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Your partner has too many rules. There are all kinds of things that have to be done just so, in the way he considers correct,… Continue reading Thursday Thought — The Slow Build of Harm

Instone-Brewer’s views on divorce compared to mine: Part 1, appreciations & agreements

I have been pretty silent on my view on Instone-Brewer's work up till now, because compared to most other writers on divorce, he is excellent. So why am I now speaking up? Because one of our readers said — I am curious as to your views and differences with Instone-Brewer’s book. I felt a lot of his… Continue reading Instone-Brewer’s views on divorce compared to mine: Part 1, appreciations & agreements