What do you say when a friend tells you, “You have a victim mentality.”

I would reply to that friend, “What do you mean by a ‘victim mentality’?” Once your friend defines what she means, you can then take it from there. If she means you complain about the injustice with which your abuser has mistreated you, ask her if it is a sin to make such complaint. If she… Continue reading What do you say when a friend tells you, “You have a victim mentality.”