The principles of effectively moving on after a toxic relationship are actually quite simple, but not easy. Folks have to remember to focus all their time and energy on things over which they have power, most especially, their own choices and actions. Ruminating about the past, trying to get others to understand, worrying about whether… Continue reading Thursday Thought — “Moving On After An Abusive Relationship”
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how victims are affected by and respond to abuse, awakening from the fog, getting free, healing & recovery, hope
Thursday Thought — It’s not your Fault
After understanding the mentality and tactics of abusers, would you say that there is anything a victim could do to. . . relieve the abusive situation? Could she submit more, keep the children quieter and more obedient, mother him, keep the house more perfect, lose twenty pounds, be more seductive, cater to his every whim,… Continue reading Thursday Thought — It’s not your Fault