Thursday Thought — He’s just insecure.

We often hear statements like this about abusers:  "Well, you know, he grew up in an abusive environment" or "He is insecure, so you just need to love him more and be patient."  These statements and similar statements can come from friends, family members, church leaders, victims, authors, and even professional counselors.  The beliefs behind such… Continue reading Thursday Thought — He’s just insecure.

Thursday Thought — His Attachment to Payback

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator.. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Women who are in unhealthy relationships struggle with the question "Is my partner's behavior normal?" You may wonder whether the problem is that you're just… Continue reading Thursday Thought — His Attachment to Payback