What do you say when a friend tells you, “You have a victim mentality.”

I would reply to that friend, “What do you mean by a ‘victim mentality’?” Once your friend defines what she means, you can then take it from there. If she means you complain about the injustice with which your abuser has mistreated you, ask her if it is a sin to make such complaint. If she… Continue reading What do you say when a friend tells you, “You have a victim mentality.”

How complementarianism can magnify the entitlement mentality of men, making them worse

This is a case study of how the promotion of Male Headship can exacerbate a not-so-good man's attitude of entitlement, making him even worse in his marriage than he might otherwise have been. It also touches on the foolishness and harm that can be done in a botched deliverance ministry. The proponents of complementarianism claim that the teaching of male headship leads to… Continue reading How complementarianism can magnify the entitlement mentality of men, making them worse