More Thoughts on Shame — From “Mending the Soul” by Steven Tracy

By now you will no doubt realize that we highly recommend Steven Tracy's book, Mending the Soul [Affiliate link}. It contains a chapter devoted to the effects of abuse on the victim, and the very first effect discussed is shame. Let me emphasize to all of us once again that shame must be confronted, or it… Continue reading More Thoughts on Shame — From “Mending the Soul” by Steven Tracy

Characteristics of Shame-Based Adults in Their Relationships — taken from Jane Middleton-Moz

The following characteristics of shame are taken from Jane Middelton-Moz. Shame & Guilt: Masters of Disguise [Affiliate link] (Kindle locations 50-51). As we have written in other posts, shame is something that we all have to struggle with, especially if we have been abused. To ignore shame is to sentence ourselves to continuing relational disasters.… Continue reading Characteristics of Shame-Based Adults in Their Relationships — taken from Jane Middleton-Moz