Why Do Abusers Relentlessly Badger Their Victims?

Recently I was reminded of a very common tactic of the abuser. What to call it? Hounding? Badgering? Let me give you a first-hand description of one recent example I know about and it also illustrates another instance that I personally witnessed. The victim was trying to get her work done — work that benefited the… Continue reading Why Do Abusers Relentlessly Badger Their Victims?

Abusers and Their Trophies

3 John 1:9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority.  You have heard me quote this verse before.  It is a statement about one of the best examples of an abuser parading as a Christian to be found in the Bible.  Diotrephes… Continue reading Abusers and Their Trophies