Couples therapy is based on two underlying assumptions. The first is that there is equality between the partners. The second is that each partner contributes to creating the problems in the relationship. These assumptions simply are not true in an abusive relationship. His abuse is not related to her actions. It doesn't matter what she… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Two Underlying Assumptions of Couples Therapy
You’re Not Like Them
A while back I witnessed a car accident. As I was pulling over to check on the drivers, the car that was at fault (car A) drove away. I was already on the phone with the police, so I nonchalantly followed the car to give the license information. The car that was hit (car B)… Continue reading You’re Not Like Them