Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] These are signs that you may be involved with an abusive partner. Are you afraid of him? Are you getting distant from friends or family because… Continue reading Thursday Thought — Signs you may be involved with an abusive partner
Category: Victims
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I just hate feeling like I am back at square one when some of these triggers come
A survivor friend wrote to me recently: Today I got a card from one of my ex's relatives and she wrote inside it, "Jesus died on the cross for ___ and He loves him too!!" It really triggered me. She left a voice mail on my machine two days ago that said, "I am sorry I have… Continue reading I just hate feeling like I am back at square one when some of these triggers come