Many people quote 'Father forgive them for they know not what they do' when they’re talking to victims of abuse. In this post I'll briefly explain why it's unhelpful to quote that saying at victims. If you want to learn more, read my updated post Three Kinds of Forgiveness. When Jesus was saying “Father, forgive… Continue reading Misapplying “Father forgive them for they know not what they do.”
Category: Supporting victims
guidance for family members, friends, volunteers and pastors who want to effectively help victims, risk assessment & safety planning
The Transtheoretical Model For Change — a tool that can support victims of abuse
Those who want to help victims of abuse can use the Transtheoretical Model For Change to avoid lording it over victims whom they are trying to help. If more pastors, biblical counselors and advocates become aware of the stages of change, fewer victims will be criticised for not changing at the pace that the 'helper-person'… Continue reading The Transtheoretical Model For Change — a tool that can support victims of abuse
