Thursday Thought — “Am I the One Mistreating Him?”

Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Life with a controlling partner can become a twisted world where bad is good, down is up, and wrong is right. Many women over the years… Continue reading Thursday Thought — “Am I the One Mistreating Him?”

Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (Part 2) — Stalking behavior by the abuser

How the abuser behaves when the victim is on the cusp of leaving Let’s consider the abuser’s sudden nice behavior when he has either been told by the victim that she is leaving, or he suspects that she may leave. I would like to suggest that the abuser's new acts of kindness have nothing to do… Continue reading Leaving an Abusive Relationship Isn’t Easy (Part 2) — Stalking behavior by the abuser