Tag: Lundy Bancroft

Thursday Thought — What does the process of change look like for an abuser? Can an abuser change? – Insights from Bancroft and Crippen

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Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Lundy Bancroft provides some insight into what it looks like for an abuser to do the real work of changing and why it seldom happens. Well,… Continue reading Thursday Thought — What does the process of change look like for an abuser? Can an abuser change? – Insights from Bancroft and Crippen

Thursday Thought — “Am I the One Mistreating Him?”

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Update added March, 2025. Lundy Bancroft has now been exposed as a predator. Any red lettering in the post below is part of this update. [End of March, 2025 update.] Life with a controlling partner can become a twisted world where bad is good, down is up, and wrong is right. Many women over the years… Continue reading Thursday Thought — “Am I the One Mistreating Him?”