Navigating Through Negative Emotions (by Jeff S. & Megan C)

On the heels of Megan's post about waves of false guilt (found here), she and I (Jeff S) began a discussion about the various permutations of internal negative feelings over our behavior. A therapist I heard once categorized these into three categories, which we think are helpful to define and identify: Embarrassment, Guilt, and Shame. These progress from surface level… Continue reading Navigating Through Negative Emotions (by Jeff S. & Megan C)

Eggshells and a Peace that Cannot Be – by Anonymous

Here are some hard-learned lessons from one of our readers, the survivor of many years of abuse.  Thank you, Anon for helping us all learn: You cannot make peace, where there is no peace.  Sometimes, victims of abuse, spend inordinate amounts of time, trying to get “peace”; bring “peace” keep “peace” in a marriage and… Continue reading Eggshells and a Peace that Cannot Be – by Anonymous