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Daily Archives: November 27th, 2012

The Backlash of Boundary Setting

You have heard us talk a LOT about boundaries. I have recently set them, myself, daily learning the subtle art of boundary setting — from minor “I would rather not talk about that” boundary setting all the way to “warrior” boundary setting. I was not prepared for the fall-out last year when I set the …

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Equity rescuing, and how it pertains to Phase Two of an abusive relationship

Megan’s post Stunned Again described three phases of an abusive relationship. I was going to add a lengthy comment on that post about something that can play out in Phase Two, but I’ve decided to make it a new post instead. To refresh your memory, here is what Megan wrote about Phase Two: Phase 2: …

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