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Awakening the Evangelical Church to Domestic Violence and Abuse in its Midst

Daily Archives: May 22nd, 2012

What Type of Friends do Abusers Have?

The following very helpful insights were sent by one of our readers and we post her insights here with her permission.  This is a good illustration of an unsafe relationship characterized by one controlling, unsafe person staying in the relationship only so long as they are the superior and their “friend” is the inferior.  This is …

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Losing Yourself in the Fog of Abuse — by Joan

Joan, one of our readers, submitted the following comments on how abuse works to erode one’s personhood.   Many of you will identify with her description: “Someone once asked what it felt like to lose yourself.  They said: ‘Can someone please elaborate on what they think that means and how it feels? Once you lose …

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